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Toilet Training
The task of toilet training is one that often causes a degree of anxiety
among parents and carers of toddlers.
It is a complicated skill and the process
must be carried out in a very supportive manor.
Facts to remember:
- Before commencing toilet training your child must demonstrate the
physical ability to control their bladder and bowel movements. It can be a
long process before they are able to develop conscious control and the
occasional accident can occur even in young school aged children.
- The readiness both physically and psychologically is not complete until
the child reaches the age of 18 - 24 months. This is when the child is aware
of the ability to control the body and please the parent.
- Imposing your will and insisting on co-operation before the child is
ready will not make the process of toilet training happen any faster.
- As with all millstones sin childhood there is a wide range of "normal".
The average age of commencing toilet training (i.e. the reasonably
successful transition from a nappy to regular underwear but not necessarily
with complete daytime control) is 2.4 years.
- Bowel training is usually accomplished before bladder training. This is
because it is more regular and predictable.
- Nighttime training of urination may not be complete until the ages of
4-5 years - sometimes longer.
- Reducing the child's fluid intake before bed or waking them at midnight
to use the toilet may decrease bed-wetting but it will not teach the child
conscious or voluntary control.
Helpful hints:
- Limit practice sessions to 5 - 10 minutes and stay with the child until
he or she is confident.
- Don't forget to train the child in hand washing techniques also
- Praise the child for co-operative behavior and/or if a successful
outcome is achieved.
- Avoid showing any signs of disappointment
- Dress children in easily removable clothing.
- It is helpful to tell the child that when they feel the urge to urinate
or have their bowels open that they need to allow enough time to get to the
toilet.
- Gentle reminders are useful as children become engrossed in their
activities and often wait until it is too late to get to the toilet.
- If the child says "no" don't try to insist or persuade them. The aim is
to help them take charge of themselves.
- Take extra pairs of dry pants when going out and be aware of the
location of toilets in shops and public places.
- Most importantly - go easy on yourself and your child. Try not to
compare them with siblings and friends. Remember they are all individuals.
It may not happen overnight but it will happen!
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